Self-Improvement Starts From Within

The decision to get ready and become the person we want to be is both the first and second step toward success.

Now—where are we? What happens when doubts, fear, noise, responsibilities, and people’s skepticism become real and start getting in our way? We walk freely… until all these things begin creeping in. And suddenly, we fall back into what we are used to—we return to our comfort zone. In that comfort zone, there is comfort food, the comfortable version of ourselves, a comfortable salary, and comfortable relationships.

I know it’s hard. Sometimes, it feels easier to change countries and start fresh. Well, tell me about it—I crossed the Atlantic Ocean and started over, completely fresh. At the beginning, I was simply replicating everything I already knew. My new friends were just like my old friends, and my “new” self was just a copy of the old me. It didn’t work out the way I wanted. I remember getting a new phone and deciding to start fresh—even with that. I was firmly intentional about changing. And once I truly made that decision, things started aligning the way I desired. 

Think clearly, without distraction, about where you want to go and who you want to become—and go for it. Inside of you, there are all the means you need to succeed. You have already taken a big step forward. You are searching, you are here. The next step is to understand that things are easier than you think. Your mind may try to show you otherwise because it was trained by your past, not by who you want to become. It remembers old patterns and pushes you to act accordingly. Your mind has learned from everything you’ve fed it so far, and now it wants to keep you within that same radius. But it doesn’t work like that anymore—because your desire is stronger than your habits, stronger than your past. Your imagination and your desire are powerful engines, capable of attracting and aligning everything—and everyone—you need to reach your goal.

My goal? I will publish my book, and you will read it. I am writing it for you, and I won’t let you down.